Sunday, 27 September 2015

ARTIFICIAL ENHANCERS; EROTIC BEAUTY

Basically, some Men feel cheated by Women when they eventually realise that what their eyes craved for in a woman they just met turn out to be a mirage.
They crave for certain features like long hair, certain eye colour, huge butt/hips, maxi boobs etc. either a feature they want their prospective off springs to have or just to satisfy their LUST. Alas! They become so disappointed when they unfold the wraps on the parcel and realise it’s all FAKE.... LOLxx
 I can imagine the look on the face of such a man.


 I received an email from a male reader asking me why women aren’t honest anymore with their body features and what prompts them to adorn themselves with all the fake stuffs for beauty enhancement.The truth is that it's Men that push us to go for all these beauty enhancement items. HOW?
They prefer to talk to and approach the ladies with all the supposed features than ones in their natural look. For instance, I attended a wedding with my sister few years back, hoping to meet someone but annoyingly all the attentions of the cute male folks were directed to her. As a matter of fact, she was asked if I was her younger sister because I looked younger and less attractive.  I felt left out, not good enough, and not up to the trending standard.

On several occasions I have been with some male friends and they usually speak highly compliment-wise of thick endowed ladies and they want to be identified with such women. Then what happens to the skinny, less endowed ones. They simply feel not good enough and less of a material. Thanks to the beauty enhancers, most women have regained their confidence and have gotten a number of attentions.
This is to answer the question on why most women use the artificial beauty enhancers but on the other hand LADIES, why do we need all these to prove our relevance to a man. I am not against it but in my honest opinion, when you eventually land this man as yours and he finds out that all he saw were fake; your relationship becomes a SHAM and far from your dreams and idea of a successful relationship/marriage. You find out that your man's attitude towards you changes. From my research on how men really feel after they find out that you were all artificial; they become uncomfortable with you, they lose their trust in you and even doubt if your love for him was real at the first instance. They feel less secure around you because you presented your insecurity first.

After my analysis on comments from different men from different races, I came to a conclusion that they are attracted to women with false everything because they want to flirt and feel satisfied at the moment and also have something to brag about but if they are looking for that special someone, they would probably go for the ladies who adores and presents themselves as they are even if they are naturally endowed. Men do things in reverse. They meet you, want to get into your pants, before they bother about what you really look like afterwards. 
If you are in the showbiz, then by all means invest in the fake boobs, butt, hair and lips. Wear as much makeup as you like, because you are in the business of showmanship.  Men usually do not go home with call girls to see her take everything off.  Because it is usually dark in a club, he is not shocked by her illusion and has no intention of taking her to mama.  However, the potential wife or girlfriend, trying to imitate the illusions created by these showbiz league, shocks her potential man with each fake body part she reveals. Men in general do not like shock of this kind and are truly amazed at how much makeup alone can totally change a woman’s appearance.
Fake features are an illusion even if it’s trending amongst the celebrities who try to make it permanent by going for surgeries.... NEWSFLASH! They have to continue with this surgical inconveniences to keep up with the appearance and it doesn't mean that their kids will inherit these features when born.
So appreciate your body and make the best out of your physique. If you're endowed, flaunt it. If you're not endowed, still flaunt it. There is a reason for your uniqueness. If everyone decides to be Kim Kardashian then who becomes YOU.

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2 comments:

  1. Well said Cynth. Keep up the good work. I'm a fan

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  2. Please do nt generalize this issue. Not all men go for that, some are just looking for simple things of life.

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