THE QUALITIES OF A GOOD WIFE AND MOTHER

To be a GOOD WIFE you must be a GOOD WOMAN. A Good Woman makes a Good Wife and a Good Wife becomes a Good Mother. Follow the steps below to be that good example to your daughters.

1.  Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2. Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3. Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4. Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5. Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6. Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7. Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9. Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10. Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand starvation for too long (even the anointed ones)
11. Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12. Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13. Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14. Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15. Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16. Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17. Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18. Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19. Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20. If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21. Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22. A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23. Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24. Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25. Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26. Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27. Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28. Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29. You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30. A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.                                                                                                                                                                    

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MISPLACED BEAUTY OF HER YOUTH

Pregnancy is such a beautiful experience for both parents especially when it is a first one. But what i don't seem to understand is the idea behind a nude maternity shoot.

Every Adult can generally relate to how you got pregnant which is not short of sex. Then why would you choose to bare your husband's private property in public in an act of devalue. There is a saying that pregnancy can never be hidden so why do you have to go nude as a proof of your maternity status.

I have seen very beautiful photo shoots that revealed the glow and glamour of a pregnant woman with virtue and honor without seeing her nudity.
Ladies, your body is a private and personal icon of entertainment to your husband.. He paid your parents to take you from their home. So you make it a public business when you decide to crash the media with your nudity.

From the above maternity shoots, we can clearly appreciate the radiance of being pregnant without beholding their privacy. Your body is a temple of God and only your husband have been given the right by God to behold that temple. Accord a little value and respect not just to yourself, but to your husband because you are the crown of your man and the sceptre of your children.

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PEADOPHILIA....the perverted minds

A woman is beautiful, an epitome of so many significance, a direct link to creation which crowns us Mothers. 

Our role as Mothers is not limited to cooking and home making. As a mother, you owe a greater role of motherhood to your daughter(s). From your teachings, they can be better mothers of their homes and the society at large. Daughters in most families are faced with peadophilic violations from adults who are family friends, uncles, maids, drivers, brothers and even their fathers. It’s not news of a father sleeping with his daughters even as young as 5 years of age. The question is where was their mother when these atrocities occur?

Many mothers don’t have a personal relationship with their daughter(s) that they don’t even know if they have been through any form of physical molestation. Trust and confidence between a mother and daughter is not a piece of pie, it is painstakingly built and can be lost in just a snap, so it's delicate.

Don’t allow any visitor, brother, driver, uncle or family friend lap your female kids and don’t leave them alone with any opposite sex not even her father (this might sound ridiculous).

My sister and I had our experiences of violations of which she was the only one who was bold enough to call my mom’s attention while we were kids. I couldn’t say a word because I didn’t think she would believe me. It made me have natural dislike for men while growing up but it took only the Grace of God from getting to the point of existing with them in a common space to where i am now. That doesn’t mean these memories have been flushed down my gutter.

Below are in-depth testimonies of the experiences my friends had as kids (the names are fictitious not their real names):
Bella wrote;

As a child, there was this pastor that always came to my house on courtesy visits to my family. I usually run into his arms and I would sit between his legs. When my mom goes into the house to put something together to serve him, he would finger me. Though I still live with the faint memories of what happened then but I didn’t know what he was doing so I relaxed. Besides it wasn’t hurting at all.

Chloe wrote;

We all shared the same bed as children (both boys and girls) which includes the servants. Most night when I slept, my cousin would push my pant aside and touch me all over. I just keep still but awake. And when I steer he would pretend to be asleep. He was way older than I was and I was scared to confront him and I didn’t want to wake everyone. Though I had a little glimpse of what he was doing but he never went more than that.

Many young girls ain’t as lucky as to these point of molestation. Some are raped and impregnated or even worse beaten up for refusing or putting up a fight. She can’t tell you because you won’t believe her or might even be faced with beatings from you. Who would believe it if her daughter tells her that her pastor is molesting her sexually?. No one!

Please Mothers, pay closer attention to your daughters. Communicate with them about everything. Teach them about the dangers of SEX at the wrong time and wrong age. Teach them at their young ages where men are not supposed to touch them. Don’t blame her quickly even before investigating the truth in her complaint. Most of these children are introduced to Homosexuality at a very tender age and being their first intimate experience without your knowledge stick to it for the rest of their lives. May God give us the grace to guide the flock he has given unto us as Mothers in Jesus Name, Amen.

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