HIS SILENCE DRIVES ME NUTS

Yea, this can be really frustrating because we women love to talk and when we are talking and you're not responding; it can be really annoying. We just want to have a piece of your mind.

But Ladies, the reason why he isn't talking is because he feels insecure, unsafe, ridiculed, challenged, or put down at some level when he talks. He feels that the best thing for him to do is to just keep quiet and let it go. As a lady, you are the crown of your man. If he feels unsafe inside your home or in public; then you engineered it. The best way to get him talking to you and not giving you the silent treatment is to make him feel he's the man, he is safe and not saying stuffs that put down his ego; don't challenge him, he would just shut down on you. This is not a guaranteed formula for success in your relationship, it’s just a basic concept on how you deal with a man.

You as the woman, might be overwhelming him, or scaring him. Yes! No matter how rigid a man looks, his greatest weakness is the woman he loves but the feeling can be too over bearing when he isn't in the mood. Watch how you approach him with communication (appropriate tone and energy). He might have a problem with a particular way you approach him and just decides to be reserved in response because he doesn't want to yell or scream. Face it! If he yells at you, you'll definitely talk back and say worse words to antagonise him and this would probably make him lay his hands/fist on you. So most times the silent treatment keeps him from hitting you or saying unpleasant things he doesn't mean. Watch your approach.

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