It hurts when your heart is
broken. It even hurts more when the one you love doesn't love you back but the
greatest hurt comes when you don't love and accept yourself for who and what
you are. This hurt is never felt like the piercing pain of a broken heart or
broken trust, rather it reduces your self-worth and esteem.
Your first love and last love is
SELF LOVE.
As a woman, you're worth more
than a thousand gemstones so you don't need anyone's acceptance to be fulfilled
in life. You don't need anyone's approval to attain a certain height in life.
You don't need to be a genius to be a success. All you need is
Determination. The mistake we make as women is believing that our
happiness lies with a man or your relatives or people around you. Our completeness
lies with a man but in truth our true happiness lies with us.
Why do you need a man before you
can eat, shop or even give yourself a treat?
Who says you can't build your own
empire?
Independence accords respect to
you from all angles and it molds you to be responsible because you have to fix
your schedule to suit every program you have for the day. There will be no time
for any irrelevant discussion of any kind and your energy will be channelled
wisely to resourceful activities.
Invest in yourself. Love yourself
because no one loves anyone who doesn't appreciate themselves. We know
you've got a problem that seem unsolvable; but tell me since you've been
thinking and killing yourself about it, have you gotten a solution? You aren’t
the only one with a problem. We have wealthy people who even with all the money
they have; are not happy due to one disease or another. And you are hale and
hearty yet you call a man every second to buy you one thing or another. I
challenge you to go out there and get a job no matter how little the salary is
or how menial the job might be. There is so much fulfilment in knowing that you
work to earn your living, coupled with absolute confidence.
You think being single is a
curse, my sister being single come with FREEDOM OF CHOICE. Don't hate yourself
because you're single. Don't compare yourself to your friend in a relationship
or is married. You don't know what they are going through. No relationship
or marriage is a bed of roses, even roses have thorns. Every morning just
look at yourself in the mirror and say to yourself "I LOVE YOU". Once
you love yourself enough, then you can handle any other love from others and
the blows that come from it. If you cannot be completely happy with yourself,
you cannot be completely happy with the world. Start little and the steady
progress will definitely keep you going. There's no time to stay sad and sob
about the problems of the world. They were there before you came and they will
still be here when you're gone. So wake up, make up and go somewhere you
wouldn't go on a normal circumstance; the spa, vacation, shopping, get a
makeover (I didn't say tattoo o) etc.
Life cannot serve you lemons and
you sit and complain. My dear make lemonades and move on with life. Life is
short.
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