SOULMATE

Is there such a thing as a SOULMATE?

We have this over exaggerated concept about marriage that there is that special particular person that makes us complete. It makes a great story in romance movies where two people search to find one another.

Aww! So perfect. But Hey! Snap out of it, it doesn't work that way in reality. There is no special one person that makes you happy or complete. We even spiritualise it that God created that one person for you. It’s ridiculous. So I think the emphasis placed on finding that special person is a huge mistake. That is not to say single people shouldn't be hopeful in finding a good person that doesn't drive them insane to the extreme. Women who go about believing that they could change a man. I've got news for you; if it acts like a skunk, walks like a skunk, and smells like a skunk. Lady! It’s a skunk. Don't marry or end up with someone that's gon be a problem in your life just because you are caught up with the idea that it has to be that one person. It is not common sense.

Find a good person. If you do the right things, any two people in the world can have a successful relationship. That’s the principle surrounding love, patience, forgiveness. These principles are so powerful but are being ignored in relationships, People believe that when they just find the right person, then happiness will be automatically released to them.

From the age I was stunned to like the male folks, I was stuck with the illusion of my fairy tale happily ever after with Mr Right. It’s just that glamorised illusion. And ladies let's be honest, that is just a nightmare that hunts us endlessly. Now I am not saying all hope is lost and there are no treasure to be found. As far as I am concerned the myth of a perfect mate can't be over emphasized but it’s just a folk tale, just like the fairy godmother and the wicked witch. This mistake can't be overruled. Logically it is believed that you find the right person, get married and you live happily but when they end up being miserable in their relationship, they realise it’s been a mistake from the idea and concept of Mr Right or a Soulmate then you hear stuffs like “men/women can’t be trusted, I’m never gon fall in love again etc.”….bla bla bla

Just find that person that you feel comfortable around them and make it work. Everyone is crazy but find the amount of crazy you can live with and make it work. Love is simply two imperfect people who chose to see each other perfectly. Stop waiting for THE ONE. He/she doesn’t exist.

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