PEADOPHILIA....the perverted minds

A woman is beautiful, an epitome of so many significance, a direct link to creation which crowns us Mothers. 

Our role as Mothers is not limited to cooking and home making. As a mother, you owe a greater role of motherhood to your daughter(s). From your teachings, they can be better mothers of their homes and the society at large. Daughters in most families are faced with peadophilic violations from adults who are family friends, uncles, maids, drivers, brothers and even their fathers. It’s not news of a father sleeping with his daughters even as young as 5 years of age. The question is where was their mother when these atrocities occur?

Many mothers don’t have a personal relationship with their daughter(s) that they don’t even know if they have been through any form of physical molestation. Trust and confidence between a mother and daughter is not a piece of pie, it is painstakingly built and can be lost in just a snap, so it's delicate.

Don’t allow any visitor, brother, driver, uncle or family friend lap your female kids and don’t leave them alone with any opposite sex not even her father (this might sound ridiculous).

My sister and I had our experiences of violations of which she was the only one who was bold enough to call my mom’s attention while we were kids. I couldn’t say a word because I didn’t think she would believe me. It made me have natural dislike for men while growing up but it took only the Grace of God from getting to the point of existing with them in a common space to where i am now. That doesn’t mean these memories have been flushed down my gutter.

Below are in-depth testimonies of the experiences my friends had as kids (the names are fictitious not their real names):
Bella wrote;

As a child, there was this pastor that always came to my house on courtesy visits to my family. I usually run into his arms and I would sit between his legs. When my mom goes into the house to put something together to serve him, he would finger me. Though I still live with the faint memories of what happened then but I didn’t know what he was doing so I relaxed. Besides it wasn’t hurting at all.

Chloe wrote;

We all shared the same bed as children (both boys and girls) which includes the servants. Most night when I slept, my cousin would push my pant aside and touch me all over. I just keep still but awake. And when I steer he would pretend to be asleep. He was way older than I was and I was scared to confront him and I didn’t want to wake everyone. Though I had a little glimpse of what he was doing but he never went more than that.

Many young girls ain’t as lucky as to these point of molestation. Some are raped and impregnated or even worse beaten up for refusing or putting up a fight. She can’t tell you because you won’t believe her or might even be faced with beatings from you. Who would believe it if her daughter tells her that her pastor is molesting her sexually?. No one!

Please Mothers, pay closer attention to your daughters. Communicate with them about everything. Teach them about the dangers of SEX at the wrong time and wrong age. Teach them at their young ages where men are not supposed to touch them. Don’t blame her quickly even before investigating the truth in her complaint. Most of these children are introduced to Homosexuality at a very tender age and being their first intimate experience without your knowledge stick to it for the rest of their lives. May God give us the grace to guide the flock he has given unto us as Mothers in Jesus Name, Amen.

Please leave your thoughts and comments below. If you have topics and discussions you would like us to talk about here on this blog also feel free to send an email.
(letstalkvirtue15@gmail.com). 


Warm regards.